Instead of judging what someone is saying, try listening for needs and feelings.

Everyone has the needs we discussed last week. And most of our time is spent trying to get those needs met.

When having a conversation, you can listen for the feelings being expressed. Once you have identified the feeling, see if you can determine the need the other person is trying to meet.

By truly listening and being present, you may be fulfilling someone’s need for friendship, acceptance, or respect.

Try it this week.