Sometimes when we need something, we can take care of it ourselves.  We can take a nap if we are tired, get a drink of water if we are thirsty, or draw if we feel the need to be creative.

Many times we need things from other people, love, friendship, respect.  But here is the trick…
You cannot make someone else do something. 

You can ask, plead, or even threaten, but it is up to the other person to actually decide whether or not to do as you request.

Here is a way to increase the chances the other person will do as you request…

Put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself what the other person wants?

They have the same needs as you do.  Of course, their need in the moment may be different from your need in the moment.  But if you can figure out how the other person can get what they want while you get what you want, you are much more likely to gain cooperation. 

It is called a win-win situation.