Compliments are a great way to let others know you notice and appreciate things about them, whether it is their beautiful blouse, the tasty dish they prepared, or the loving way they soothed a child.

Many people appreciate compliments but feel a little embarrassed.  Don’t let that stop you, though.  They will take those compliments with them, rerun them in their mind, and enjoy them again and again.

Be honest.  Flattery is excessive or insincere praise.  Don’t try to flatter someone.  They will see through it, and it will actually leave a negative impression. 

Also be short and concise in your compliment.  Going on and on can cause embarrassment or discomfort, and it may be the discomfort that will be remembered.

Many people down play a compliment. 

What a beautiful necklace!

This old thing?  I picked it up at a garage sale for $1.

You can follow up with “Well, it is still beautiful.”  But don’t get into an argument over it.

When you receive a compliment there are only two words you need to say in response…Thank you.

Receive compliments and appreciation with gratitude.